Money:
Money
has always played a role in everyones life, it does in the lives of couples
where arguments become seemingly endless. This happens if the income gap is
huge between the partners or when wife is unemployed which lead to arguing, In
Indian family set up where the scene has shifted majorly from girls being a
housewife to working women marital seems to be on a hike as none of the
partners is ready to compromise in any situation. Here the notable thing is
that money makes one individual feel secure, and in case of women it gives a
good satisfactory mind and confidence in taking care of family.
Possessiveness:
We
cannot change our past On the other hand bring out the possessive nature of
your partner towards this relationship. While we cannot change our past keeping
a tab on your present relationship should be the priority,if the partner is not
comfortable with your current status it is better to maintain a healthy
relationship. Some might say getting insecure is over possessiveness but at
times it is justified as it might just be a word of concern from your partner’s
side. Understanding your partner is also equally important which most of the
couple lacks to a great extent, and that is exactly where the blame starts.
Too much of anything is bad. This applies for
married couples. Too much of love leads to misunderstandings and over
possessiveness. The wife might generally talk to another,but the husband might
not see this in a good way. Sometimes husbands may be more closer to their
families than his wife some of the husbands finishes their works come home and
continues to learn something or speak to his family without spending time with
their wife’s,this is the point where arguments are caused due to over
possessiveness,this leads to a problem among them and it also reflects in
misunderstandings among wife and the person with whom husband is speaking, And
also this causes the gap between their relationship.In such cases, both the
partners, in doing so they are indirectly fighting. Possessiveness is good to
deal overpocessiveness will definitely causes lots of problems between the
couples.
Inlaws:
For
husband or wife’s those who are is not accepted in the family, dealing with the
in laws can be very hectic.If they are far then it is good to deal with them
but if they live nearby or in the family itself then that can be a problem. The
problem between the husband and wife starts when the wife starts complaining
about her inlaws or maybe the husband starts cribbing about the way his mother
in law treats him. The idea case should be that a husband and wife should be
accepted in both the families.
In
some cases the wife’s inlaw may be filled with over pocessiveness and she
cannot leave her son always and at times she may look for a good time to say
something with the plan to get more closer to his son than his wife,which makes
a little fight among the couples and when this continues the wife’s starts
fighting with their husbands and by knowing this the mother inlaw will
continues this and at times when wife comes to know this, this was the time to
start the gap among them and leading a big problem with the family.
DecisionMaking:
Decision
making, is an important that a couple has to do when they are married ,sometimes
that leads to trouble. Sometimes even this cannot be decided that who is to
make a particular decision it’s the husband or the wife, such cases fights take
place which get worse. Sometimes one of the partners may take a decision but it
may not be appreciated by the other person. In such cases arguments are and it
can be solved only by proper discussion by both the partners.
Communication Loss:
Incase
of couples where one of them work , they often complain that their partner does
not give sufficient time to them and the family. only the husband works and he
often returns late from work and straight away goes to bed,the wife feels
completely ignored .When both the couples work, they return late and have no
means of communication during the entire day. This leads to communication loss
and is the cause for small fights turning serious.
Romance:
When a couple freshlystarts their life, there
is romance between them which is one of the reasons that leads them to get
married .But many times couples complain that after marriage that romance slowly starts fading,this is the
reason start complaining about every small thing. A small thing which they could overlook
earlier is becoming a big issue. The lack of romance often loosens the bond
which they had between them and the only solution is that both of them make an
effort to bring back that romance in their lives.
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